醉亭a room of wine and candles

过去很多年了，今天，《灌篮高手》再次让我感动。

生活在这个纷繁复杂的世界里，有太多的事情令人烦忧疲惫。多少次，在静默的深夜，在窒息的办公室，在乏味的临时住所，我感到无奈消沉，却又不甘而奋发。成绩或许有一些，但困守的围城感总能冲破虚构的美好。于是，怀疑此生是否将沿着匀速上升的轨迹飘过。

不会，今天灌篮高手们告诉了我这一庄严的字眼。前进，永不退缩，乐观，樱木这个混蛋小子给了我大大的鼓励。无需华丽的辞藻，樱木同学用他典型的日式动漫精神燃烧着我渐行渐远的雄心。豁然开朗，醍醐灌顶吗？然也，还真如此感受。尽管抵触日本，但其动漫中时时投射的韧劲和乐观绝对让我相信是人性的智慧。

樱木，我被你感动了；赤木，你让我怎么说；三井，你欲称霸全国，我当战胜自我。

Way back into 努力。

婚礼的喧闹已经离开了耳畔，婚假的悠闲也悄悄走了。带着些许的无奈和满足，我回到了工作状态。新的生活该开始了。

仓促间，我竟结婚了，没有什么征兆，连自己都难以相信。或许自己天生是随波逐流的享受者，不需要适应时间，我便徜徉在了婚姻的幸福中。竟与恋爱时候没有什么分别，不过是将“宝宝”换成“老婆”而已。依旧亲密调皮爱撒娇。虽说没有什么惊天动地，没有太多的缠绵悱恻，但就像淮扬菜，我们的爱情恬淡适宜，颇多回味。婚姻不过是一剂调味品，将爱情调得更加香醇。沉醉其中，咀嚼未来的责任，我将和老婆一起奋斗。

老婆，我爱你！不比海深，不似天长，一点点就够，醇厚专注。

颇为愉悦的心情在父母的结婚冲锋号中黯淡了。本是件值得兴奋的事，偏偏父母要请神问道，把日子算得精准紧迫，完全扼杀我轻松的计划，颇有些窒息的感觉。

父母心，爱之深，催我结婚意之切啊。得，跟女友商量了下，得赶紧把拍婚纱照提上议事日程，要不过些天女友就要受冻了，唉，天哪！！！还要买西服，残酷，残酷啊。我的单身自由啊，自由啊，自由！！！若为爱情故，自由赶紧抛。。。

My love, I'm jumping into the fire, the lovely powerful overwhelming fire. Fabulous dancing in fire.

开始寻找勒人的西服和炫目的影楼，happy trouble........

讨厌怀念爱情。

爱情是不能怀念的，无论曾经多么美好。怀念的根本定义就是对现在的背叛。一张相片，一封情书，一个布娃娃，一根项链，无论什么，当爱情断开的时候，都应该归还对方，压下苦楚，说不必再见。如果留下昔日的点滴，只会影响现在的爱情甚或婚姻。两个人的世界从来不会是单纯烂漫绚丽的，难保没有磕磕绊绊。夜深人静的时候，拿出过去的物品，追忆，曾经是那么美丽。或多或少，现在平静的爱湖里泛起了涟漪。

张小娴说：“再次说byebye吧。”回到从前，彼此间将从功利的火热走向注定的分手。与往事干杯，不过是复制已有的苦涩，甚至还加了点岁月历练的世故佐料。何苦来哉！

回忆往日的爱恋不如读懂现在的感情。分析条理，有问必答，最好能像写公文一样，列出个一二三，做好一篇读后感。爱情不是用来回忆的，而是用来呵护经营的神圣俗物。

不要再怀念爱情。

我们家可爱天才的天意妹妹明天将登上飞机，去往遥远的澳大利亚寻求不羁的未来。真为她感到高兴，性格才女是需要广阔天空自由翱翔的。

可是，小天意，我要向你道歉啊，非常非常抱歉，我没能在你飞越海洋之前去看看你，真的很抱歉。三周前，我们说好的，我要带上你未来的漂亮嫂子去看你，可是种种原因扼杀了我的探望之旅，只能心向往之。惭愧惭愧，竟然没来得及和我最可爱最天才的天意妹妹话别离，哥哥真的很难过。

天意，你是我们的骄傲，无论如何，翱翔吧。这次哥哥没能送你，下次，等你下次回来，我一定给你带上转正的嫂子去看你，带你去滑雪，去玩乐园。不过乐园部分由嫂子陪你，我玩不来，一上过山车就晕了，嘿嘿。

海阔凭鱼跃，天高任鸟飞。天意，带上我们的祝愿，前行吧。让中西方文化在你身上完美交融。未来，我要见到睿智、美丽、典雅、活泼、永远微笑的文化杂交女郎。加油，天意，加油！！！

情人节，今天是七夕情人节，七夕的月华虽不绚烂，却是氤氲醉魂的。我爱二月的Valentine情人节，但它有了太多媚俗和空虚的烙痕。相对而言，我更爱七夕。七夕，多美的名字啊，漫天星辰中，牛郎织女深情款款，为一生一世的守候，一年一度从鹊桥两头奔向爱人的怀抱。凄美与柔情赋予了七夕太多的爱恋、真挚和海枯石烂、生死不渝。

纤云弄巧，飞星传恨，银汉迢迢暗渡。

金风玉露一相逢，便胜却人间无数。

柔情似水，佳期如梦，忍顾鹊桥归路！

两情若是长久时，又岂在朝朝暮暮！

我爱七夕的美丽，崇拜牛郎织女的天涯海角共此时，那份坚贞和守候是繁华都市中钢筋混凝土森林里难寻的温柔。在西洋情人节占据浪漫点缀舞台的今天，传统含蓄羞涩却坚定生生世世的七夕爱情会成为人们期待的未来吗？希望春秋冬夏都会拥抱淡然深邃柔情蜜意的七夕之恋。

The day is too hot, but we are not supposed to be bathed in slounging in waiting for time passing by. Sports, study, tour, anything interesting or beneficial can be applied to filling empty. Too much digital game entertaining should never be promoted. Wish me and the world a full summer.

今天是2008年8月1日，是伟大的中华人民共和国人民解放军成立八十一周年。这是令人骄傲的日子，是任何有过军旅生涯的中国子民激情澎湃的时刻。毛泽东、朱德、周恩来等革命先辈为夺取实际主权和推翻国人长期受压迫生成的奴性，高举义旗，浴血奋战，翻开了人民共和国中华民族一家亲的新篇章。

多少先烈洒热血，饮豪爽，浇注了新中国的英雄气概和儒雅淡定的王霸之气。而今，我们背上行囊，跋山涉水，熔炼肉体，洗涤灵魂，坚决传承先辈的光荣遗产。先辈们，我们聆听你们的教诲，艰苦朴素，勇敢坚毅，开拓创新，将血性融入灵魂。我们做好汉，蛟龙出海，猛虎在野，鹰击长空，定用钢铁意志保护和平的中华民族。

共和国军人从来不是嗜血的野兽，他们更是建设国家的栋梁之才。血雾漫天的厮杀滋生勇者，而身着或卸下戎装，用在杀阵中挥策方遒、淡定从容的双手建设国家，人民勇士幻化作伟人，普普通通的伟大之人。

让我们怀着伟大的心融进普通的人民大众，为千百年后共和国军人和人民大众的交互伟大贡献每一份力量。加油，共和国军人！加油，中国！加油，中华民族！

侧身，滑步，起跳

腾于云间

瞬间，万籁俱寂

灵捧住了天际的片片晶莹

如注的汗水折射出力量

骄傲的头颅啊

安静地昂起

若轻猿，似舞娘

臂豹展，腕鹰勾

飘逸剑侠共仙羽

悠然人间

In two or three years later, I will have a child. I hope he inherits all merits of me and my wife: tall, hansome, bright, smart, hardworking and more importantly, healthy, kind and considerate. Wow, the key point is almost neglected, the exact point to entitle him a boy. Though I don’t take this as the only choice, I prefer to having a son. No reason. Just a wish. Well, for this wish, I have to work hard so as to provide my son with a chance for receiving good education and an apartment for marriage. The second requirement is not a necessity. However, I have to make preparation. In Shanghai with relatively fewer resources of living places, any parents will do some preresponse. Hey, my potential son, live your life perfect. With every possilbe exertion, I believe you will give me and your mother a great answer. If, I mean, if, if you're a daughter. I love you the same. You must be a beautiful, kind, clever, considerate and hearlthy girl. No matter whether you have the key point or not, my child, I love you and believe I will be proud of you.

没想到自己会被冠以恶名，尽管她没有明确说出来，但我知道我是恶人了。竟然，唉，她竟然称自己为“被迫减肥中的猪”，我不就成了压迫者？作为文明和平世界里的一个善良分子，我实在不敢扛着这么彪悍的名号，那是严重与无数在黑暗世界逡巡着，渴求毁灭世界的不安定分子抢地位啊。那多不好，我可是个谦谦君子，最不喜欢抢夺他人的东西了。更何况，我不过是把你那圆滚滚的纤细的腹部甜甜地表扬了一番，并建议你坚持做俯卧撑以增添腹部本就近乎诱人的肉质的美感啊。宝贝，看好咯，我那可是虔诚的、痴痴的眼神哦。嘴角肆虐的哈喇子和耷拉着的舌头便是最好的明证了。

亲爱的，知道圆满吗？要圆才完满哦。加油，向圆圆出发。借你尚欠完美的温柔的小腹枕去我的疲惫，真好。

《绝对权力》传递了三个意思：

立党为公，执政为民——周善本

政府对领导干部的严格要求是必须的，但是，光有领导干部的洁身自好和自律看来并不能完全杜绝腐败问题。现在有些腐败是领导干部身边的亲人、朋友还有工作人员利用其手中的权力去完成利益的交换。这一点值得深思和警惕。——齐全盛

踏踏实实做人，免得日后后悔。——赵芬芳的忏悔

齐全盛尽管在前期的政治斗争中谋取了绝对权力，但那是“为了更好地为人民做贡献”。而赵芬芳要绝对权力，是为了为某些人服务。

政治是两面的，为人民服务而谋政方是善政。

有人说：“绝对不会因为付责任而结婚，如果不爱人家，仅是为了负责任而结婚，那就是最大的不负责任；长痛不如短痛，那才是真负责。”我不愿为此言论挣得面红耳赤，但我从心底认为，这是最最不负责任的言论，不过是逃避责任的面人托辞。

结婚不是谈恋爱，最重要的因素是为双方创造一生幸福的责任感的承担，是对今生未来一辈子的担待，是对无限必然变数的坦然包容，是摈弃太多诱惑的决然选择。恋爱是对极致绚烂的追求，是极尽心智的雕琢，是抛开人生百态沉醉诗画生活的片段；而结婚是涓涓细流的铺陈，是无数欢乐、沉醉、平淡、无聊、争吵、呵护、关爱的片段的缀合。

数十载人生，令人欲罢不能的朦胧感觉不期会溜到身边。爱情线牵得长了，自然也就倦了，不期而至的诱惑让心灵骚动，难耐。抛开已有的，拥抱新鲜感觉，然后信誓旦旦地说：“我不爱你了，不能和你结婚，我不能欺骗你的感情，那是对你不负责任，再见吧，我曾经的爱人。”带着些许的歉意，缓缓从泪眼婆娑的永别爱人面前走开。渐行渐远，对新恋人的憧憬骚动得越来越强烈，瞬间冲淡了刚刚涌上心头的歉意，飞身跳进新编的情网。一段时间后，此网渐老，新情可待。多年后，误了人，误了己，皱纹袭上额头，还在写着年少轻狂时的爱情作业，涂涂改改。当自己终于从奔驰变成桑塔纳，找了另一辆QQ草草配在了一起。而此刻的缠绕不过是饱戏人生者的凄凉支撑，已没有了真切爱恋时的交心扶持。人生倦了，回忆从前的美好，如烟似雾，四顾苍茫间不禁期待可还有刺激可循。

结婚吧，漠视诱惑，真心对待爱人，深情投入，和伴侣用一生画一个句号。

宛若一面平静的湖水

澄澈，婉约，淡然

小石子

勇敢地扑向波心

荡起片片涟漪

那是你

对我低眉含胸的微笑

“要想住洋房开跑车，在你穿假名牌的时候，我就能够做到了。跟你在一起，就是因为我爱你。”夏琳说得好，真的好。

爱是纯粹的，当下决心爱一个人的时候，就彻底地爱吧，不必以奋斗作为借口，爱是主料，奋斗不过是辅料。

我爱你，宝贝。。。

Life are unpredictable. You may not feel satisfied now. But that does not matter, ‘coz it never means it would stay in the status quo all the time. What matters is how you take it. If you are  luckly optimistic and dynamic in looking for fun, you are surely going to find happiness soon.

Well, too theoretical. However, I am granted some good friends as well as comrades. We may not have the same target about life. That could not deter us having the same interest, though. We are all interested in playing badminton. Today, we decide to establish a great association, Lanzhou Hand-stretched Noodles Association. Never doubt the great meaning as of the association to our sporting fun. This association provides spiritual as well as material power to us for better playing. Each time we want to play badminton, we will enjoy delicious noodles first. And during the process, we may have something to discuss just for relaxation. And without such a chance, we may seldom join together to have a funny chatting.

I do love this association. In this humble but significant organization, I find much happiness as well as a key source of fun, that is, friendship. Never ask for too much, but ask yourself to look for satisfaction. Take life easy and be a spiritual titan.

When I was a child, I always felt time was passing too slowly and I always wanted to grow up as soon as possible. However, now, it appears time has changed into another mode. It never stays as is in my wish. Busy, busy, and busy. Time never meets my requirement. Fortunately, job seldom harshly whips forward. But some other trivia trifles me much. These days I’m doing a big translation about two professional medical doctoral papers. They take up all my off hours and eat all my brain cells. Thankfully, this could promote regrowth of an energetic brain. I’m tired, though.

That does not mean all bad only if I can find some way to get relaxation. Then what is my way. I clean my room, as clearly as I can. For more than a year I’ve been living inside the room. Never, however, have I carried out a thorough cleaning project. Just one hour and a half ago, I started the great execution. Furniture? I moved and smeared. Floor? I swept and mopped any section. When finished, I could not believe I was in such a beautiful space. You know, I am alwasys a clean room oriented person and I often clean my room? But a thorough cleaning is something too huge for me. But I can assure myself now I will take the thorough cleaning into my routine agenda. I have to say I love this too much. I will not doubt this exertion made a more efficient finisher of the translation program.

My friends, if you want to get happiness and comfort out of nothing, do a thorough cleaning of your room.

I can hardly believe I should be hit by three important pieces of news in two days. Two drive me happy, but one leads me into a terribly sad emotion.

One of my best friends is going to have a baby in two or three days. He is going to be dad, a dream he’s pursued for several years. Now it’s on the verge of turning into reality. He is proud and bathed in ecstasy. I am happy for him and for me. I am going to be uncle. Haha!

Another best friend received marriage certificate this morning. He’s been conquered by love. Congratulations, my friend! You’ve made the best surrender.

However much happiness I feel. A terrible message let me down, freezingly down. My best best best grandma was sent into hospital today and now is having intravenous drip. Tomorrow she’s going to have examination. Hope she’ll be fine. My grandma is my most well-beloved eldership. After my grandpa was dead 26 years ago, she exerts herself to raising a big family. She is kind to every person. She’s suffered too much all her life. If gospel exists, may grandma all ok!

Are you married? If yes, congratulations, ‘coz you’ve been saved from trouble and traps branded in tradition.

Marriage is kind of a label of romance in film but fact goes in another way. You are not supposed to expect marriage with a great wedding decorated with flowers and music and a couple sunk in happiness. That occasion does not come involuntarily but in a zigzag way. The wedding is a result of love and negotiation. Two young lovers love and their parents negotiate. And the key of negotiation is not about wealth but potential son/daughter’s family name.

Traditionally, children’s family name go with father’s family name. However, things don’t always happen in the same mode. As many families only have one child. Grandparents all want their grandchild follow their family name. So now we can hear more and more stories about the two lovers’ parents fighting in smile at one table for future shining of family name. The fight is pathetic when it comes in the way of marriage. But few people can bypass the procedure.

Do I care much about children’s family name? I would like to sacrifice anything only if my love is happy forever. But family name, hmmm, as a traditional family patriarch, will I neglect the continuing of my family name? I am puzzled.

So those who are not in love, I suggest, take a good consideration of your family name trouble before falling into love.

Have you ever found a invisionable magic power of your girlfriend? I promise you have benefited much from this magic thing now matter you’ve noticed it or not. What is this? Out-of-nowhere self-encouragement ot clean up your room. Happy trouble, isn’t it?

I have always preferred to keeping my room clean and clear. I love the feeling of walking on the floor without wearing shoes. So broom, mop and table cloth often help me behave like a houseman. Do cleaning in music, you don’t have to doubt, is kind of relax. Wipe off dirt and save me a clean space to comfort my tired body and mind.

I do love cleaning. Now with girlfriend’s frequent appearing in my room, I do this jop much more often. Sometims I even tell myself, “hey, buddie, are you willing to peel decoration off the wall?” Hmmm, magic power favors me much happy trouble, happy love and happy enjoyment.

This year, China has witnessed too much bad luck, including snow storm, pandamic, earthequake and even riot. Chinese people have suffered too much since the Opium War. Now that some inspiring improvement is being endowed and the Olympics is historically ready to happen on the weary old magic land, how should the nation remain living in promising outlook entwined with so much suffer? Wish China be with love and care, from citizens, from other nations, from the Nature and from the God.

Every time a friend goes to America, my girl would ask them to buy something back for her. And I have to say all these things could be aquired in local place. Then how should she bother others to do so? Only because you may spend half or even less money on the same goods.

Then how could it happen, especially when the goods made in China cost much less than in America? An American economist on Chinese economy told me something and these elements stunned me and made me feel kindly humiliated.

If you are a merchant and when you realize you could spend less transporting your goods from Guangzhou to America than to Beijing and when you understand you could access to market in America much easier than in China, which marketing channel will you choose? American market surely stands the first choice. Lower cost decides lower price and much bigger buyer population and more importantly great satisfying feeling of respect. Marchants endeavor only for profits. For this there’s no doubt. But we can never ignore merchants are humans and humans need respect. When a merchant could sell his/her products in much greater quantity without much need to beg some selfrightous officials in some market, he/she will certainly love this place. And then Amercia provides the right choice.

I don't know whether the economist’s words should be all right, but I’m fully convinced he does give some hint. Let’s decline all man-made hurdle to sound market discipline, for our money spent in local place, for the whole world attracted to shop in China, for long-term development, for public’s benefit and for brighter future.

On the other side of the phone, you told me you want to put your head tightly against my stomach and rub smoothly. I saw a image branded as love and felt exactly my body was in great enjoyment.

The volcano bursts into fire and the Earth quivers and murmurs and falls into great happiness. The feeling is so strong that the Earth is willing to sacrifice its body to God. After suicidal enjoyment of the great burst, the Earth and the volcano returns into sleepy silence. The couple of lovers hold each other every day. However, they seldom have a chance to wake and oper their eyes to see each other. All they can do is hold each other and feel each other’s warmth. When the God wakes them after hundreds of years, they rub against each other in great great love as if the world is only made of them.

Once in a week I feel your face. Once in a week you know my arms. Once in a week we feel overwhelming intimate feeling and this “once” lasts one week. Hmmm, hope happy.

Yesterday I said simple food tastes good. Minutes ago some friend added great power to this belief.

He seldom ate much. I could hardly find a chance his food tray was finished empty. Twenty minutes ago he and I and some other friends went to a little hand-pulled noodle stand. He ordered a big bowl of noodle and a little dish of beef with some grains of peanuts as decoration.

I was terrifically surprised ‘coz I never saw him eat so much. Usually he took a little more than half of so much food. I was always puzzled how he could feel full with that little. His answer was simple but consistent, that is, I’ve taken enough nutrition. Well, I have to say enough nutrition designs a slim man characterized with thinness.

He finished all he ordered, faster than any of us, shedding a proud word on us: I ate more than any of you. Oh my god. Happy, I could only think of this word. I felt so happy for him. Finally he realized how much he should eat.

Then I realized this was just the magic of little food stand. You never get hungry feeling as you feel after a luxurious dinner.

If you hear me say I want to treat you a great dinner, never expect a luxurious feast. But don’t be upset. I’m not joking you, ‘coz I will take you to a little restaurant or eatery or even vendor’s stand. No, no, don’t open your eyes so wide. There hides best food. Back from there, you will be fully convinced luxurious places sell luxury decoration rather than cuisine.

I love delicate cate and always take any chance to feast my tongue. Junk food, I should say, could never be included in my choice list. Ajisen Ramen, KFC, McDonald’s and Hamburger King and things like these should be firstly excluded. Then how about star branded restaurants? They do provide exquisite food. Whereas no one take them to be accomodated by stomach. They are produced for visual appreciation. They are so dainty that you feel no primitive satisfaction when you are saved from hunger.

That is why I am in deep love with cheap food. They are entwined with basic intention for completing stomachs. Producers do not have to care about how they looks like. All their care are dedicated to flavor and basic use. Just like homely made food, these simply made food could be found much intimate warmth that satisfy eaters’ aspiration for fullness.

Fullness consists of physically satiisfaction of guts as well as spiritually completion. That is the highest merits and virtues. Care more about your family food.